Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "Heads Or Tails #86 - Reason":Well, well, well. It seems someone has some issues. How the hell would Anonymous know what we felt? How the hell would Anonymous know how much we miss Jakob? Especially since "Anonymous" is apparently my daughter's ex boyfriend who is now Jakob's foster dad. (I may be wrong on this, but he's the only one who would write a comment from that perspective.)
That is a great picture of the kids they had a blast together. The funny thing is that you say by some mircale JAKOB got to see the family that misses him so much!!! But yet how much time did that family spend with him!!!!!!!!!!! DID GRAMDMA SPEND ANY TIME OR THE UNCLES OR EVEN MOM??????????? Would you be shocked to know the total time from ALL family members was less the 30 minutes in the entire two hours!!! Good thing they missed him???? BUT HE STILL LOVES EVERY ONE OF YOU AND CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AGAIN ( WHEN EVER YOU DECIDE TO HE IS IMPORTANT?????????????). TO BAD FOSTER CARE IS SO BAD??????????? AND EVEN THOUGHT MOM DOSENT MAKE ALL THE VISITS IT IS NICE TO KNOW JAKOB STILL CARES AND REMEBERS EVRYONE IN HIS FAMILY AND COMES HOME TO HIS SISTER AND SOMEONE WHO DOES CARE ABOUT HIM AND DOES NOT SLEEP THROUGH VISITS OR MISS THEM SEVERAL WEEKS IN A ROW!!!!!!! AND WHO SETS A BIRTHDAY PARTY AROUND GRANDMAS SCHEDULE WHO LEAVES AFTER GETTING THERE!!!!!!! HOW CAN ANY OF YOU CALL HIM FAMILY WHEN IN 15 MONTHS NONE OF YOU CALLED OR CONTACTED HIM AT ALL????????????? HOW COULD YOU HOW DARE YOU ACT LIKE JAKOB IS THE VICTIM HE IS HAPPY AND DEALING WITH HIS OWN ISSUES!!!!!!!!
Ok "Anonymous".. let's look at my point of view.
First. Learn to fucking spell. Oh wait.. you're how old and still a cashier at Costco? My bad. I guess spelling isn't needed at such a power job as that.
Second. Yes, I left early. There were several factors that came into play. Most of my family knows why, my husband knows why. A blog friend knows why. (Smile.) I assume you DON'T know why because nobody in my family likes you.
Third. WTF? I mean seriously. WTF? Do you think nobody enjoyed watching Jakob playing and having fun with his cousins? Cousins he hasn't seen in forever??? What did you want someone to say for crying out loud? "Come here Jakob. Stop playing and having fun. Nah.. forget your cousins, people your own age. Come sit with me. We'll have a chat."
Fourth. Where in my post did I portray Jakob as a poor victim? If anything, I implied my family is deprived from seeing him. I did not say Jakob is unhappy where he is. Despite everything "Anonymous" I have consistently said you have provided a good home for him.
Fifth. After so many attempts at trying to get to see Jakob, either at your place or anywhere else, people tend to see how controlling you are and give up. Last time I asked to stop by in March you fed me a line about how it had to be approved by the state, and I know for a fact that is an outright lie.
Also.. did you get those emails I sent you asking what Jakob would like for his birthday? You never answered them.
In closing "Anonymous".. you are a chicken shit. Next time you have something to say to me say it to my face!
Note: Now that I've cooled off a bit I thought about editing some of what I said. But I think I'll leave it. Even though some of it was just nasty and uncalled for.
I was wrong to speak for my children. Whatever I said about their thoughts and feelings should come from them, not me. It's likely I was wrong in interpreting those.
Another Note: Things have been resolved in the comments.