Thursday, July 24, 2008

It Was Easy To See

By the time my daughter found out she was pregnant with her first child, the father had taken off for the hills. If you knew him, you would know that was for the best.

When the baby was born, he looked so much like his father. We could all see it. He's six years old now and he still looks more like his father than my daughter.

Attempts have been made over the years to contact him.. mostly for child support. None of us really want him involved in the boy's life in any manner, shape or form.

Recently the court system found him. He failed to show for two appearances, but he made it to the one last week. He denied ever knowing my daughter.. Until they left the courtroom where he said some not very nice things to her. He boasted he was going to go right then and have a DNA test.

The report just came back. There is a 99.9% chance he is the boy's father. Apparently he knew her at least once. (Smile.)

Oh.. and there is NO chance he will get privileges with the boy. It seems he mailed the court a suicide note the week before appearing.

He's still a few parts short of a power steering rack.

5 comments:

Shannon H. said...

He sounds like a real winner! NOT! Men like him piss me off. He reminds me of my ex-husband.

74WIXYgrad said...

Makes me glad my son in law didn't inpregnate my daughter before he went back home to mommy.

This dude who is the father of your grandson sounds like one who needed a good butt whipping a long time ago.

Tammy said...

What a loser!

BoggyWoggy said...

Hey, none of us know his whole story, but, I'm pretty sure we can all agree he's a true asshole. If he were to kill himself, at least the baby (now 6) would be eligible for his Social Security benefits. I love the part where he denies even knowing your daughter. Isn't THAT just the icing on the cake!

Jen said...

WHAT A TOTAL LOSER!!!! I agree it's best he not even be in the kids life. Hopefully he'll pay some child support, but I doubt it. WHAT A LOSER is all I have to say!